Often times, beginning a new school year can cause stress and anxiety for both parents and children. Even less complicated transitions to a new teacher or classroom or even to a new group of peers can leave children requiring extra family support. Research has shown that a parent’s involvement in their student’s education leads to more positive outcomes in:
• Academic success
• Higher student self-concept
• Improved social interactions
Here are some ideas on how you can assist your child transition in school:
1. Take a trip to the school or even to the specific classrooms that your child will attend. For example, bring your student’s class schedule to the new Junior High School and walk from room to room. Peek in the windows! Imagine what the teacher might be like and reflect on positive past experiences your child has had at school.
2. Purchase new school supplies to ensure a fresh start. Folders, notebooks, and new pencils and pens are an easy way to help your student become motivated to start school. Young children might enjoy a new backpack or lunch pail.
3. It can be very difficult for preschool age children to separate from their caregivers. Provide them with a “transitional object,” such as a photo, a piece of inexpensive jewelry, or another trinket that has sentimental value to take to school with them. This way they can always look at or hold the object to remind them that they are loved and that their caregiver will return shortly to pick them up.
In some instances, children and families may require professional assistance, if it seems a child is having difficulty coping with change. Warning signs to look for, if your child is struggling emotionally include:
• An increase in aggressive behavior
• Withdrawal or isolation
• A dramatic change in personality or attitudes
• Persistent crying
• Changes in sleeping or eating patterns
Whether it be a transition from preschool to kindergarten or a transition from Junior High to High School, parents need to maintain open communication with their children and validate their thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
To discuss you child’s unique needs, please contact Amanda at 661-259-8200 Ext. 5 or visit her website at www.amandajhills.com for more information.