So is everyone ready for the rest of my story? I have to tell you that some things changed dramatically in just a month. I would never want to date someone who already has a boyfriend, but she made it sound like it was over. One date led to another, and pretty soon a relationship was forming. Or so I thought. The more we got together, the more I wanted to see her.
Now there was a little bit of an age difference, but it did not bother either of us. After a few months I was becoming hooked on her. We had dated for more than six months, and we never had a bad time together. For some reason she was still with the other guy. I would ask her but she never wanted to talk about it. I had told her I did not want to be the other guy. The problem now was I had fallen in love with her. So once again how do you know it’s really love?
Well I had been divorced over 10 years, and have dated quite a few women. Serial dater? No, you do have to date in order to find the one you want. Most people I know tell me I am too picky, which of course is true. I mean if you do not feel something for that person, should you keep dating them? Probably not, and of course that works both ways. I knew I was in love with her. When she would call or text me, and I could not wait to hear from her again. Every date was so good; I did not want them to end. I went to bed thinking of her, and woke up thinking of her, checking my phone every five minutes. I do not remember being like this with anyone else. It finally got to the point, where even though I loved her more than anything, I had to give her the ultimatum. It was either her other boyfriend or me. I waited for an answer, minutes seemed like hours, and hours seemed like days. In hindsight I always knew the answer, but I was too in love to care. Of course she could not leave him. It seemed I was much more in love with her, than she was with me. Was all the pain and hurt worth it? I cannot remember the last time I felt this good with someone, and who knows if I will ever feel this again. So heck yeah it was worth it.
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