Creating a parenting plan after separation can be difficult. A large factor in determining a parenting plan is the schedules of both the parents and the children. The Los Angeles Superior Court offers some suggested parenting plans on their website that could be helpful to parents in determining what reasonable visitation would be. While it may not always be the goal of both parents, the goal of the court is to make sure the children are able to have frequent and continuing contact with both parents.
The Los Angeles Superior Court offers different suggestions for parenting plans based on the age of the children. The most controversial parenting plans are often for children under three years old because infant children are often nursing and nap regularly.
From birth to age six months, the court recommends visitation with the non-custodial parent to be three non-consecutive days per week for two hours each day. If possible, visitation with the non-custodial parent should aim at not disrupting the child’s sleep and nursing pattern.
For ages seven months through 12 months, the court recommends three non-consecutive days per week for three hours each day and an overnight visit if appropriate. These short and frequent visits help to mutually develop a secure relationship and bond with parent and child.
For ages 13 months through 18 months, the court recommends three non-consecutive days each week for three to four hours each day, one weekend day for up to eight hours, and an overnight visit if appropriate.
For ages 19 months through 36 months, the court recommends one weekend day for ten hours, one mid-week visit for three hours and an overnight visit if appropriate. Because children in this age group are often potty training, no longer nursing, or beginning pre school, parents should be conscientious of forming a parenting plan that will not require the child to change his or her routine too frequently as children need consistency in their day-to-day activities.
Parents should also remember that in order to make the parenting plan successful, they should communicate with each other regarding the children’s needs, make best efforts to create similar routines in both households, and refrain from any conflict or derogatory remarks with the other parent.
For more information about annulments and other family law matters, contact the Reape-Rickett Law Firm at 661-288-1000. They are located at 25152 Springfield Court, Suite 100 in Valencia.