So here we are, another year has just disappeared. Am I the only one who thinks time is going faster? I want to slow it down for a moment and thank everyone who has read my articles, and of course the ones that took the time to email me. I have enjoyed reading all the responses, good and bad. The year did not end the way I had hoped. There were many ups and downs, but through it all I kept a positive outlook. It’s very easy when you are dating to just throw in the towel, when things don’t work out. Believe me, I have thought that on many occasions. Then I think what if everyone gave up just because something did not go his or her way. The world would be even worse off than it is today. I, for one will keep going out there meeting new people, and knowing someday it will happen.
Let’s start off the New Year by looking at ourselves first, and see if we can change or eliminate some of the criteria we use for dating. What do you think you need to be happy in a relationship? I was under the impression that all it took was someone who wanted to be with you all the time. I was wrong in some instances. For those of you that are waiting for that perfect one, you will be waiting all your life. It’s time for us to be accountable. Think about it for a moment, isn’t it true that when a date goes wrong or a relationship sours, it’s always the other person’s fault. Well not anymore.
You know the biggest complaint I hear is there is nowhere in Santa Clarita to meet people, unless you are in your 20s. I have found out you can meet someone just about anywhere you go out here. So when that opportunity arises, smile and say hello, yes you women, too. It could just lead to a coffee date. I am looking forward to writing about more of my escapades. I want to wish everyone out there a Happy New Year. Think positive and remember to keep your glass full. Oh, and I have one little comment for all the single guys. There is no such thing as a third date rule. Let’s just keep it real.
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