As I sit here writing this, a song is playing in my head, and it will not stop. Yeah this happens a lot. Sometimes a song will remind me of a former girlfriend, and I start thinking of her. Then there are the times a former girlfriend just pops into my head for no reason.
I begin to wonder what might have happened if we would have stayed together. Why did we break up, and did we try to get back together? Then I start thinking about the ones I did get back together with. I keep finding out that if it did not work the first time, it’s not going to work a second time either. I even gave it a go with the ex, to no avail.
So why do we try a second time with someone? Is it because we have not found someone new, or just miss the companionship? Do we really believe it will be better the second time around? Then there are the ones that I tried to get a second chance with only to be shot down. The part of this I do not understand is that these women had given other boyfriends a second chance. So why was I not given the second chance too? No, I did not cheat on them. To this day I have never received an answer on this. I wonder how many of you out there have experienced this too. Many years ago there was a woman I was very attracted to, but she was married so I did not pursue. I moved on and years later our paths crossed, getting coffee where else. She told me she had been divorced for a few years now. She gave me her number, and every time I called she was busy. I am a little slow so after six months of her being busy, I finally gave up. Your guess is as good as mine, as to why she did this.
So now summer is here, and we in Santa Clarita are lucky to have Concerts in the Park, and concerts at a couple other venues out here. I have never met anyone at these concerts, and you know there are a lot of single people at these concerts. I need some ideas to help all the singles out there. Maybe wear a certain color, like red?
To write or just say hello, email Paul, The Luv Doctor at scvsingle@yahoo.com.