Is the Luv Doctor engaged? Could this be the end of his single in Santa Clarita articles? Hmmm, should I let the cat out of the bag? Why was the cat in there to begin with?
Before I answer that all-important question, I hope everyone had a great 2014. Now it is time to have a fantastic 2015. So how do we go about accomplishing this feat?
It all starts with you, because if you are not happy with yourself, how can you make someone else happy. There are so many negatives in the world; we just need to concentrate on the positives. Especially when it comes to dating and relationships. In my early years of dating it was pretty easy to get out of my comfort zone, and adapt to changes in the relationship. As I have gone through my metamorphous, marriage, kids, and divorce, I find that I need not change anymore. This is who I am, take it or leave it. Like a lot of people that I have talked to, you reach a point in life where you are pretty much set in your ways. I had quite a few dates last year, and most did not work out, because we both had totally different ideas on what we wanted. Now I know some of you will read this and say, who does this guy think he is? I will tell you I am just the average guy out there, looking for a nice relationship. So many people concentrate on being materialistic. They think if they keep up with the Jones’, they will be happy. Having everything doesn’t mean you will be happy. Once you become happy with what you have, and who you are, then the relationship will take care of itself. Let’s make this the year that we look past the negatives and see the happy person we all have inside us. Remember, smile and the world will smile with you.
I will be writing about the holiday dinner next month, since I have not gone out yet. I am really looking forward to that. Well I am out of time, so I will have to wait until next month to answer the important question. Hope you all had a very Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year.
To email and say hello, write to Paul-The Luv Doctor at scvsingle@yahoo.com.