Let’s see a show of hands, for everyone who missed me over the last couple of months. Thank you so much, that’s a lot of hands. I missed you all, too. The New Year has brought so much. I have so much to talk about, and want to start by asking, what’s important to you?

For some people the most important thing could be work, or maybe traveling, or even dating. When I think I know what’s important to me, I always come back to good old number one. Family. That has been, and always will be most important to me. I could go on, and on about my family, but you get my drift. I do have a lot of catching up to do on my dating. First off, my Christmas date was a big success. This was one of those dates, where everything was clicking. We had such a good time; I could not believe she was single, and available. We were enjoying each other’s company so much, the night flew by. It was finally time to say goodbye, although I did not want the date to end. Before we parted I asked if we could go out again, knowing full well she would say yes. Then she blindsided me, by saying, she did not think her boyfriend would approve. The room started spinning, like I was drunk. The Christmas date was supposed to be for a woman who did not have a significant other. I could not answer, so I just turned and walked away. Sometimes I wonder if I have sucker written on my face. So it’s back to square one for me, and I do not mind a bit. If not having a date is the worst thing that is happening to me, then that’s not bad. I wonder if some of you out there have the same fear, getting the courage to ask someone out? Then I think, what is the worst thing that could happen? She says no! So what, get over it.
I need to address the readers that want a single’s night out here. Unfortunately it is moving slowly, but will keep trying.
To write and say hi, contact Paul-The Luv Doctor at scvsingle@yahoo.com.

Santa Clarita Magazine