There are many options for students of every age during the summer. One can find classes or activities in just about any sport, area of interest such as cooking, science, music, art, drama, computers, Legos, robotics, video production, foreign language, etc., as well as good-old summer camp. Not only are these activities a great way to spend time while parents are working or to stay busy during the long summer vacation, if a good match is made they can also help boost social skills and friendships, which are so important for social and academic success.
For students experiencing challenges with social skills, withdrawn or isolated behaviors, or negative experiences with bullying, the right summer activity can help! Making friends is difficult for many people. One of the toughest parts is the initial contact and interaction with a new person. When a person joins a group of an activity that interests them, they have already addressed that initial interaction. Everyone in the group already has at least one similar interest – the focus of the activity. There is already something in common to discuss. From that narrowed group of individuals, the first level of getting to know someone is taken care of and closer friendships may develop. Long-term friendships might not result from every summer activity, but it is a great way to practice social skills, become more comfortable in different social settings, experience a sense of belonging, and above all have some fun along the way.
What is your child interested in? Is there something new she would like to try? Is there a skill he would like to improve or advance? Does she have a favorite summer activity? Consider the vast options offered in the City of Santa Clarita’s Seasons catalogue with so many activity options for children and adults alike. There are also myriad of private classes, activities and programs to choose from right here in our valley and beyond.
Have a discussion with your child about what interests him. Participating in an activity or group with others who share their interests will bring smiles, laughter and happiness; as well as help combat feelings of sadness, loneliness, boredom. What will your child do this summer?
If you have concerns about your child’s academic, social or behavioral success, please contact Dynamic Interventions at 661-257-1254 for a consultation.