Recently, Tisha B’Av, considered the saddest day in the Jewish calendar, passed. This day marks the destruction of both Temples in Jerusalem and other painful events dating back to the ancient Israelites. I bring this up, not to depress anyone, but to make two points that are poignant to me.
First: every day I try to remind myself (and anyone who will listen) to appreciate the blessings and good fortune we have; and, not to take for granted the abundance and high standard of living that we’re privileged to. Plus, we can cherish our ability to connect with family, friends, community, history, heritage, and a higher purpose in life. I am aware of suffering and injustice, and I’m deeply saddened by it. At the same time, however, I genuinely appreciate that I study these circumstances rather than live through them.
Second: I can’t explain why bad things happen; many great minds have tried to resolve this. I can’t explain the ways of G-d. However, I can look at my own actions, and my own motivation; and I can be honest about what I can do to improve myself and to help make the world a better place. Is this an easy process? Absolutely not. Like anything worthwhile, it takes ongoing commitment and dedication.
I’m writing this article during the Summer Olympics. I love that the world can come together to celebrate the accomplishments of individuals and teams. This teaches me that if we commit ourselves as individuals and communities, we can reach new heights of understanding and spirit. I may not be able to change history; I may not be able to change others; but, I can change and transform myself. Just as the Olympic athlete must train and study every day, so must I train and study every day to work on my actions, my attitudes, and my motivations. Only then can I improve my relationships with others, and begin the journey toward getting closer to the Source of Life and Blessings.
We’re approaching the High Holy Days, which represent turning toward G-d and goodness. I hope we can all examine ourselves to see if we’re showing appreciation and good will. Let’s look inward to make ourselves, and the world, better. Let’s not take too much time to question what others do, and what G-d does. Let us ask instead: “What can I do?”
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