Did you know we are all divine souls having a human experience? If we could only see that in one another, life would not have to be such a struggle. By constantly trying to prove ourselves to others and convincing them we are worthy, our capacity to love ourselves becomes polluted.
As humans, we often go to great lengths simply to be liked. Often our people pleasing actions chip away at our own truth and self-worth. Have you ever given a gift to another expecting to receive approval and love in return? Have you ever found out that someone has judged you before meeting you simply because of gossip they heard? What is that about? Have you ever gossiped about a friend or neighbor in order to win the approval of another? These selfish intentions will only poison yourself and your family. You have set yourself up for disappointment.
There is a way out of this cycle. By discovering who you truly are and what gives you joy, you will begin to forget about pleasing others. Your intentions will become more pure and you will find those around you full of love and support. As your perception of yourself becomes clearer, other’s perceptions of you will carry less weight.
Shouldn’t everyone have a chance to be liked and even loved? Yes! The truth is, we will never make anyone else happy until we learn to be happy with ourselves. The true sin of existence is that committed against oneself. We are so much harder on ourselves than we are on others. When you find yourself thinking, “Am I liked?” first ask yourself, “Do I like myself?” Once you have found this out, no one can steal your bliss.
If you find yourself neglecting your own needs in favor of others, or if you are repeating the patterns of your parents and your parent’s parents, let me assist you in excavating your true self. Give your children the priceless gift of a parent who knows and loves herself deeply.
Put your ego in your pocket and come out with your heart; ask life coach Liz for a brand new start!
For more information about Liz Hodson, call 661-255-6044, email her at liz@lizhodson.com or visit her on the web at www.LizHodson.com . Women inspiring women group is every 2nd Thursday of the month. Also find out more info on the Moms Mixers.
