Before you Say I Don’t, Please Do…

Before you Say I Don’t, Please Do…  Saying “I don’t” is a hard decision to make. Maybe something just happened or maybe it’s been years in the making.  Before filing for divorce or separation, there are some steps you should take to make sure you are ready for the...

The Angry Ex

The Angry Ex In nearly 20 years of practicing family law, the amount of venom and anger that lasts long after a divorce is over can be staggering. It’s sad & pathetic and most importantly, it is damaging to the children of the marriage. Despite attempts to shield...

Three Divorce Realities

Three Divorce Realities  Many well-intentioned people tend to give you lots of financial and strategic “advice” when going thru your divorce or separation. Unfortunately the pearls of wisdom that are offered by friends or family are usually based on myth and not...

Five Steps to Spring Cleaning for your Divorce

Five Steps to Spring Cleaning for your Divorce Spring is in the air.  It’s almost that time to dust away the dampness and cold and get ready for the warmth of Southern California sunshine. If you are gearing up to say, “I don’t” sometime in the next couple months, you...