Can There Be A “Good” Divorce?

Can There Be A “Good” Divorce?  “Thank God I found the good in goodbye” -Beyoncé Knowles In 1969, California adopted a new approach to ending a marriage through the reduction of a divisive and hostile legal process. The new law sought to “eliminate lurid testimony and...

Divorce – Do You Need A Lawyer?

Divorce – Do You Need A Lawyer? “You have to stand up for yourself when no one else will.” -Anonymous A recent article in the family court review explored the myths and truths about self-represented litigants in divorce. The author (Greacen) cited a legal white paper...

Don’t Divorce the Children

Don’t Divorce the Children  Bitter are the tears of a child: Sweeten them. Deep are the thoughts of a child: Quiet them. Sharp is the grief of a child: Take it from him. Soft is the heart of a child: Do not harden it. –Pamela Glenconner Does divorce traumatize...

Making Marriage Work

Making Marriage Work  The secret of a happy marriage remains a secret. – Henny Youngman At a friend’s 25th wedding anniversary party, the Husband was asked for the secret of his long-term marriage. His answer? Peer pressure. They’re no longer married. In an online...

The Role of Power in Divorce

The Role of Power in Divorce  Power: The ability to act or produce an effect; the capacity or ability to direct or influence the behavior of others or the course of events.  Merriam-Webster.Com. Power is a factor in every relationship. The relationship is affected by...