Ask the Questions

Ask the Questions Unlike common belief, ideal relationships aren’t based on body parts or money; they’re based on compatibility. How does one determine compatibility? Rather than seeing what you want to see or making assumptions, ask questions to help understand the...

Logic or Emotion

Logic or Emotion From childhood our decisions are judged. Though we start off curious and confident, these judgments lead us to question our ability to make decisions. The result is many choose to step back and allow others to make their decisions. Those who choose to...

The Quickest Way to Destroy a Relationship…

The Quickest Way to Destroy a Relationship… Begin with a sense of entitlement. No one is saying we aren’t entitled to our preferences. The more experiences we have, the more we discover what works best for us. Don’t assume others will change their preferences any more...

Mutual Respect

Mutual Respect The most effective relationships are those based on mutual respect. Unfortunately, though most people expect to receive respect, they usually don’t consider how their words and actions might be perceived as disrespectful by others. The more they demand...

Like a Deer Caught in Headlights

Like a Deer Caught in Headlights  How do you deal with fear? Most people freeze, shut down or get defensive, or they blindly continue on the same path (words/actions) without considering it’s not working (even adding intensity to the dysfunctional pattern). Since our...