Seeing Ourselves Through the Eyes of Others

Seeing Ourselves Through the Eyes of Others  We know what we see when we look at ourselves, but how accurate is that picture? Are we seeing more than exists or are we only seeing our perceived flaws and overlooking our true assets? What is a true asset? Is it...

The Fox and the Grapes

The Fox and the Grapes  Remember the Aesop’s Fable of the fox and grapes? The fox walked away after failing to reach the grapes, saying they were probably sour, anyway. This is about negative assumptions after failing to achieve a goal, but we can also apply the same...

Choosing a Friend and Partner

Choosing a Friend and Partner  How does one choose a friend and/or partner? Too often, people dive in without knowing what they’re seeking. Before choosing, identify those qualities you’ve learned make relationships healthy for you. Understand that your qualities must...

Discoveries Over Time

Discoveries Over Time  Last month I experienced another birthday. It’s interesting what we discover over time, both about time itself and ourselves. As we progress through time, we’re capable of seeing things more clearly, for we have more to compare them to....

The Ideal Relationship

The Ideal Relationship Ideal relationships exist when both partners feel safe enough to openly, honestly share their thoughts and feelings while freely, respectfully acting on their desires. We want to openly share and take action, proving both individuals are...